Another freakin’ retrograde!

Great. We’re in another retrograde – this time it’s Venus. Read about it here and here.

I just finished putting up the Oracle mag and was clicking around reading about the retrograde when I realised an interesting thing. The guy that occasionally writes an astrology column for them actually plagiarised his Venus retrograde column this month! Ha! I had just finished going over my work when I did a Google search for Venus retrograde and ended up at astrologycom.com. As I read the article, I felt dejà vu… Probably because I’d just read the exact same words in the article I put up! I sent the editor an email and she’ll get to the bottom of it, but my bet is that this dumbass guy figured no one else in the world would know how to Google and besides, the real author is in Australia, so that makes it ok, right? LOL

Just damn.

Having a Selfish Parent

I’ve bitched about my mother before and I will again, no doubt, but she never ceases to amaze me with her myopic, self centered, hateful and overall childish attitudes.

She called me yesterday to inform me that my father is finally getting his teeth fixed (they fell out due to his bone disease). Then she proceeds to start belittling him for using sedation to have ALL his teeth removed! When I point out that having multiple extractions is a big deal and most people are sedated, she starts in, “I don’t know what’s wrong with you pussies! I never had sedation! You are all wimps!” Now, keep in mind that she’s never actually had multiple extractions, which in my mind, negates any and all observations that she has on the subject.

Then she starts in on me and my brother, who both detest the dentist due to the simple fact that our parents took us to an Army dentist who didn’t believe in novacaine for such silly things as fillings. Yes, he drilled on young kids (I was 6 or 8, my bro 2 yrs younger) with nothing for pain. I brought this up and pointed out that our dental anxiety was probably due to our parents taking us to this dentist and by the way, what the hell were you thinking?? She immediately hops on her favourite soapbox and defense for all stupid decisions she’s ever made:

Well, I didn’t have any of that crap! If it’s good enough for me, it’s good enough for you!

What that really means is this: My mother treated me like chattel and worshiped my brother. She ignored me and I’ve never gotten over it. I didn’t want kids in the first place, so what better way to get back at everyone than by treating my kids just as shitty as I was treated?

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Carnival Rides

After seeing Live Free or Die Hard on Sunday, we went to the little Carnival that was in the mall parking lot. We rode a ride I’ve never seen before, Cobra. Here’s a pic:

Cobra Carnival ride
Cobra!

I also rode a 60 year old Ferris Wheel – the kind with metal bench seats! Like this one:

old ferris wheel
Vintage Ferris Wheel

Nick managed to ride both the Cobra and the Ferris Wheel without screaming, crying OR puking! Yay! :-)

While I’m at it, I’ll show you some of my faves, although I can’t ride ’em like I used to! The vertigo from the Cobra ride gave me a headache! Here’s the Zipper. And the Scrambler. And the Tilt A Whirl (called the Tilt A Hurl by Nick, tee!!).

I posted about the Skydiver awhile back… Here. And here’s a pic:

skydiver carnival ride
Skydiver!!

I’d like to note that the Skydiver as well as the Skywheel and most other rides that I thought were not in use any more actually are in service and going strong. They are strewn about the world, but I found out that there are Skydivers and Skywheels in service with various carnival companies around the US, it’s just a matter of catching the right company at the right time. Last summer I saw a Skydiver as it was being disassembled over at Northlake Mall. I don’t go over there regularly any more and I missed the damn show. Grr. I can’t remember which midway company it was because I didn’t write it down (like a dumbass), but the guy that was there filled me in on these rides. If I had more time to waste (more than the 2 hours I’ve wasted surfing around to all the various midway companies for this post) I’d track it down, but I don’t. I’ve got a headache and I think I’m done with the web for today.

Support your small carnivals! They are keeping alive a tradition that’s been around for 100+ years! Go and ride!

Worst. Week. Evah!

I DETEST MERCURY RETROGRADES WITH A PASSION VERGING ON HOLY.

This week has been a total bitch and I’m over it. The juicy rant only amused me for about 5 minutes, then I fell into a funk that is still going today.

I’ve got social crap to do this weekend, plus a huge list of tasks to accomplish. It’s feast or famine. I’m either bored to death or so overextended that I get totally stressed out and start to freak.

The last few days have been rife with fuckups, snafus and other fun shit and I just want to hide.

Well, hell, it’s 10am and I’ve got too much work. Guess I’ll have to get to it.

Later.

Bone’s Restaurant

Yes, I’ve finally gotten to eat at Atlanta’s premiere steak house, Bone’s. Ginormous thanks to Heather’s parents, Lou and Chuck Little, for treating us to such an outrageous dinner!

It’s interesting to note that the whole staff is men. This place is in the style of the Men’s Clubs of yore, so you won’t have a female waiting on you here. I did speak to a female reservations agent, but that’s it. We arrived on time (!!) and waited just a moment for our table. We were a party of 6: The Littles, us, Heather and Andy, Heather’s boss.

I’ll also point out that while this place is pricey, it is NOT stuffy. The staff is friendly and not at all stuck up and the food is likewise very straightforward. I like that. I don’t need art on my plate, thanks, just give me food of high quality, prepared correctly and I’ll swoon. (As I did with the Kobe beef carpaccio! I got teary eyed it was so good!) The menu is very small and sticks to the manly stuff like steaks, chops and other grilled food. I like that they do what they do very well. Other restaurants need to learn that lesson.

We had before dinner drinks: Heather and I had Cosmos and Mr Little had scotch and soda. I pored over the HUGE wine menu and chose a Chateau Ste Michelle Columbia Valley 2002 Canoe Ridge Merlot, $48/btl. It’s a drier Merlot that starts with a fruity nose and ends clean on the palate. I was VERY pleased that my blind choice (I went by the vineyard, not personal experience) turned out to work well with the food. We had, uh, several bottles! ;-)

Our fabulous and funny waiter for the evening was Manny. He was awesome! Shout out! I didn’t get the sommelier’s name, sadly, but Manny opened the wine for us, so we didn’t have contact with the sommelier on duty.

Our appetizers were:
Crab and Lobster Napoleon with Chardonnay Cream: crab with a creamy sauce and puff pastry, but not stacked as the traditional Napoleon. Very good.
Scotch Smoked Salmon with Onion, Capers, and Dill Cream. Very tasty wild salmon.
Kobe Tenderloin Carpaccio with Arugula and Parmesan: raw Kobe beef sliced thin as paper with olive oil, shaved parm and garlic. SUBLIME!! If you ever have the opportunity to try Kobe beef – DO IT! It’s so rich that I really don’t think I could eat more than a small appetizer of it. As I said above, it made me tear up it was so amazing!

Our salad course:
Caesar Salads had traditional Caesar dressing that was perfectly prepared atop whole romaine.
House salads were made with field greens. The Bleu Cheese dressing was very good.
Heather had the French Onion soup and she reports that it was perfectly done.

Main Courses:
Nick and I had Mixed Grill of Filet Mignon, Lamb and Pheasant Sausage with a lovely orange demi-glace. The beef is wet-aged, grilled, then the Bone’s Paint seasoning is brushed on after cooking. The pheasant sausage was one of the most tasty sausages I’ve ever had. I must get the brand from them!

Dinner at Bones

Mr Little had the filet (I believe): it’s wet aged and prepared as described above. He said it was delicious.

Mrs Little had the Crispy Halibut with Oyster Mushroom and Lemon Butter Sauce: halibut steak with a lemon butter shroom sauce. She reported that it was excellent.

Andy had a steak (I’m sorry I didn’t get the cut) and he said it was great. He did order A-1 for it, however, which is a bit of a gaffe. But he loved it, which is what matters. :-)

Heather had the Veal Rib Chop with Lemon and Sauteed Mushrooms: a huge veal chop prepared to temp. I did try this and I didn’t care for the veal at Med Rare. Veal is so mild that I feel it needs a bit of cooking to develop the taste. But the chop was lovely and the sauce delicious.

The table’s sides: Roasted Garlic Mashed Potatoes, Sauteed Mushrooms and Steamed Broccoli.

The grill cook who prepared our perfectly cooked meats was Darryl! Shout out! The chef on duty was Chef Brent – great work! The food was cooked and presented well.

We had 3 desserts for the table:
Key Lime Pie with Mango and Kiwi Coulis made in house was delicious!
Warm Pecan Pie with Praline Sauce and Vanilla Ice Cream from Southern Sweets was awesome.
Mountain High Pie made in house was basically cake with a ton of whipped cream frosting. It was ok, but more visual than tasty, IMO.

We had coffee and whiskey after dessert. Mmmmm.

So, that’s our experience at Bone’s. It was fabulous and fun!

A huge thanks to Lou and Chuck for burning the numbers off their Amex for us! We truly appreciate it and we did have a really great time! :-)