2025 Reading List

Welcome to a new year of reading!

I read 28 novels and 26 graphic novels last year. Not bad! This year, I’m putting recent acquisitions and reads at the top. That does not mean READING order, just PILE order. As of 11.30.25, I’ve read 34 novels and the Courtney series of GNs. 

Enshittification, Cory Doctorow. His book that breaks down the total destruction of the internet and how corporations have managed to do this. It covers Meta, Amazon, Twitter, and pretty much everything else that we’ve watched turn to SHIT. Everyone should read this book.

Blood, Bones & Butter, Gabrielle Hamilton. Byline “The Inadvertent Education of a Reluctant Chef”, which was why I bought it. A very good read! I saw a LOT of myself in her – not the work parts, but the interaction with people parts.

The Book of Salt, Monique Truong. You might remember her from Bitter In the Mouth that I read last year. This is her first novel and it is NOTHING like I was expecting! This is a story of a man who travels the world as a cook in the late 19th and early 20th century. It is a pretty good read, but I liked Bitter more.

The Sweetest Fruits, Monique Truong. She fascinates me.

The Secret Life of Groceries, Benjamin Lorr. Byline “The Dark Miracle of the American Supermarket. I watched a documentary about groceries recently, so this caught my eye. Very interesting so far. He did a TON of research for this book! He rode with truckers, worked in stores, talked to execs. It’s well done.

Gifted from the Kiss My Acid Goodbye guy:
Prison Break, Jason Goldman. While I truly do like JG, and the KMAG product does help with VSG GERD, he has a background in coaching, so he tends to be a little on the rah-rah side. Not my bag. This book is all about not being a victim (he uses prisoner) and taking charge of your shit (he uses self leadership). Nick and I are “self leaders” from way back, so all I do is nod at the obvious (TO ME) and do a lot of skimming. I can see how this sort of coaching would be helpful for LOTS of people — just not me in particular. It’s a conversational style, easy read. If you have GERD, you should look into kissmyacidgoodbye.com. You’re welcome.

Ollie’s Hurl September 2025

Find Me, André Aciman. This is the guy that wrote Call Me By Your Name, which was made into a movie that I did not see. I might get that book, too, though, because this book is quite good! It’s set in Italy but the main character is American. The characters are well written and the dialog is good, too. I’ve just started this one.

A Bright Ray of Darkness, Ethan Hawke (yes, THAT guy, who is also a writer!).
Dream Girl, Laura Lippman.
The Golden Gate, Amy Chua.

Lessons in Chemistry, Bonnie Garmus. I’d seen comments that this book was terrible, as compared to the limited series on AppleTV and I’d have to agree. Every single character in the book is unlikeable. She also gives the dog full character status, as in: the dog is given the ability to reason like a human and has running commentary. Skip the book and watch the limited series with Brie Larson and Lewis Pullman (yes Bill Pullman’s look alike son).

Attainable Sustainable Pantry, Kris Bordessa. EXCELLENT cookbook for assembling your pantry and canning foods. The canning section is SO well done! It’s all vetted for proper canning info. I love it!

When the Moon Hits Your Eye, John Scalzi. I had to start this as soon as I got it. It’s an absurd notion, housed as if it really happens and people have to deal with it. It’s got plenty of Scalzi humour and I’m liking it, despite its silly premise. In mid-read.

Never Flinch, Stephen King. This was a surprise from Amazon, we’d pre-ordered! I started it immediately after I finished Bazaar of Bad Dreams. It is another Holly book – he just can’t quit her!! This novel was good – not great. I do fervently wish the next book is called Two For Flinching, however.
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Post Tgiving Ramblings

Trek Tree 2025

I was going back and forth about writing out all my trials and tribulations since that’s all I do these days, but it’s that or not write at all, and I need to write. So.

Since I last wrote, Halloween came and went and the nastiest Mercury Retrograde I’ve endured in a very long time has finally ended.

We had a Super Moon on top of this Retrograde, and I paid the price for not listening to my instincts. Sigh.

I went out on Thu Nov 6 to make a quick run to Tower Liquor to reup supplies and get a bottle of Veuve Clicquot for my birthday weekend. I was feeling very unsure about going out, but pushed myself to do it anyway. Bad decision.

While driving on Chamblee Tucker Road, I hit a badly patched spot and it pushed me into a bit of curb that was sticking out – at 35-40mph. It was bad. Fortunately there was a neighborhood right there, so I could pull of just a few yards past the road hazard. I knew my tire was busted and I could see my busted windshield. It was a VERY HARD HIT to the right front wheel. There was no fluid leakage, so that was a relief. I was hoping that it was just the wheel and perhaps the suspension. I called Nick to come change the tire and help me assess the damage. I decided I should review the manual instructions about using the spare and good thing I did: my car cannot be driven with the donut on the front (they expect you to put the donut on the back and the back tire on the front. NOPE.). It could damage the differential. Great. So we called AAA to come haul Romeo to the mechanic. I was not going to drive him anyway with that busted windscreen and unknown damages. Good thing I did, he was VERY damaged:

– Bearings
– Hub
– Tie Rod
– Control Arm
– Strut
– Gravel diverter
– Alignment
TOTAL: $2980

New tire: $200 (somehow the wheel itself was not damaged)
Mount/balance $38

New windshield: $355

TOTAL DAMAGES: $3573 posted to our large emergency CC, which is now at about 40%.

Of course, I take to the phone and email to bring Dekalb County to task for this road hazard. Of course, they told me to go fuck myself. You see, Dekalb County is too trifling to have their own insurance, so when something happens, they see if ANY CONTRACTORS have been working in the area, so they can then force THEM to use THEIR insurance for claims. Nifty, eh? Fucking Dekalb bullshit. They don’t give a single solitary SHIT about anything going on, other than getting paid. I can’t WAIT to vote against the CEO (a stupid useless position in the first place) next round of voting. She is just there for the paycheck and sides with ICE and police teargassing citizens. CEO Lorraine Cochran-Johnson, you are a disgrace. I hope to get the office of CEO abolished, but not holding my breath about that one. If there’s one thing Dekalb is great at, it’s layers of bureaucracy and nepotism. The person in charge of pothole issues has FOUR layers of managers over her – all of which are determined to deny any and all claims. NICE.

The fight is not over, but I doubt anything will be reimbursed to me. I tried a bunch of lawyers and they won’t take on the county – and I was also informed that my car was “too old” to bother with. Fucking hell. I fucking hate lawyers and bureaucrats, so lots of annoyance.

This ruined my birthday, which was not a pleasant one to begin with. Big milestone one. BLECH. And on top of all this, some very good friends didn’t even wish me a happy day, so that didn’t help AT ALL. I pretty much spun into a 2-3 wk bout of anxiety and depression.

I finally came out of that crap in time for Thanksgiving. We put up the tree last weekend and the interior lights. Just the big tree this year and only Trek ornaments. There are 41 of them, so it’s not like the tree is bare! LOL We got the Titan and the Star Trek arcade game ornaments this year. I cooked a modest meal and had a good friend over. It was nice.

I am 100% exhausted by this year. There won’t be much going on around here for the foreseeable future. We’re selling some games to offset the Romeo Debacle™ and not doing very much in the way of xmess gifts. FUN. SIGH.

I hope everyone ELSE has a great holiday and New Year.

That’s all I have to say about that.

Hallmark Trek Ornament List

We can STOP any time we want! As of 2025, we’ve got 41 full sized and 3 minis. ;) We’ve been working on these for at least 20 years!

USS Enterprise NCC 1701 Constitution (TMP)
USS Enterprise NCC 1701 Constitution restyled 2022 (SNW)
USS Enterprise NCC 1701 Constitution (TOS Pilot 50th Anniversary Gold Edition)
USS Enterprise NCC 1701 B Galaxy (Generations)
USS Enterprise NCC 1701 C Galaxy (TNG)
USS Enterprise NCC 1701 D Galaxy (TNG)
USS Enterprise NCC 1701 D Galaxy (TNG 25th Anniversary)
USS Enterprise NCC 1701 E Galaxy (Star Trek First Contact)
USS Titan NCC 80102-A (Picard)

USS Franklin NX 326 (STBeyond)
Romulan Bird of Prey (TOS)
USS Voyager NCC 74856 (Voyager)
USS Defiant NCC NX 72405 (DS9)
Romulan Warbird (TNG)
USS Reliant (STII)
Klingon Battle Cruiser (TOS)
Klingon Bird of Prey (TNG)
Scorpion (Star Trek Nemesis)
USS Discovery (DIS)

Shuttlecraft Galileo NCC 1701/7 w/ Spock voice (TOS) 2 of these
Runabout USS Rio Grande NCC 72452 (DS9)
Hand of Apollo 2023 (TOS)

Starfleet Phaser (TOS)

The Menagerie Kirk, Pike and Spock (TOS)
Star Trek II: The Wrath of Khan Bridge scene w/ dialog (STII)
The Needs of the Many scene with Kirk and Spock (STII)
Mirror Mirror Spock and McCoy (TOS)
The Man Trap Kirk and Nancy monster (TOS)
Data Ode to Spot 2023 (TNG)
Picard and Data 30th Anniversary (TNG)
Locutus of Borg Picard and Queen (TNG)
Capt Daddy Pike (SNW)
Star Trek Command Arcade Game NCC 1701 (TMP)

Capt Jean Luc Picard figure (TNG)
Capt Kathryn Janeway figure (Voyager)
Mr Spock figure (TOS)
Commander Riker figure (TNG)
Lt Worf figure (TNG)
Capt Benjamin Sisko figure (DS9)
The Doctor figure (Voyager)
Commander Trip Tucker figure (Enterprise)
Sub Commander T’Pol figure (Enterprise)

3 mini ornaments Klingon Bird of Prey, Enterprise 1701D and Enterprise 1701

It’s That Time Again

It’s almost birthday time and I typically get a bit depressed about it. This year is especially bad if you know the number I’m looking at. If you don’t, well, just know it’s HIGH.

This year has dragged on as we watch our country get closer and closer to fascism. We attended the No Kings protests a couple of weeks ago – my FIRST protest! – and it was heartening to see about a thousand people of all ages peacefully protesting the destruction of our country.

I’ve been reading a lot, I log my reading in my Book List posts, this year’s is pinned to the home page if you’re interested.

I’m just tired. Tired because I’m old, tired because I’m out of shape, tired because of the constant negativity of living in a country run by fascists and morons. I’ve zero motivation, hence the out of shape part. I just cannot gin up enough fucks to bother to exercise. I have GOT to get over it, and I’m working on it. It’s just slow and difficult.

When I was thinking about my future when I was young, I never thought to add worldwide pandemic and fighting off fascism. I guess this is what my grandparents felt when WWII happened. THEIR parents are pretty much where we are now: they endured the flu pandemic and WWI, then WWII on the heels of that. SHITTY, I tell you.

But here we are.

Nick and I still dream of having our own business, but we also know that it is not very likely to happen. We just do not have the resources and never will at this point. Hell, we’d just like to secure our fucking HOME FFS.

It’s been a rough year all round. I’m sure we’re not the only ones.

I am just going to put up the Xmess decor SUPER EARLY (like in the next coupla weeks since we didn’t do Halloween) and try to pretend things are normal.

We did get two new Trek ornaments: USS Titan (Picard) and the Star Trek Arcade game. We can stop any time we want. ;) I am going to post the list in another entry for your entertainment!

Current State of VSG/GERD

I just saw a post by a woman who is in stage 3 kidney failure due to long term use of PPIs. Which is why I got off those things very soon after my VSG surgery. If you take them, you should start stepping down from them immediately. The product I talk about in this post would be an excellent way to do that. Read on. However, if you’ve not read it, I’d read my other post which includes the links to PPI research before reading this one if you want the full picture. The kidney specific articles are here and here. I also have several posts about getting off PPIs, you’ll see them in the category.

The woman with kidney failure and my current status have prompted me to write an updated post about my VSG and long term GERD issues. I’ve not written anything about it in detail since 2021 when I tried acupuncture – which didn’t do much, sadly. I wrote a passing note within a deck building post last summer, but I have not written anything detailed, which will now be rectified.

Ok, so let’s go back to my last batch of writing from 2021. I did acupuncture, and while I do feel acupuncture is helpful for many issues, I got little results even with the Chinese Death Tea™.

I got into a routine with ONLY famotidine (H2 blocker), 3x a day, totaling 40mg/day and antacids (calcium). This was fine until 2024, when I started throwing up. Often.

I thought I was just overeating, but when the spitting and puking kept happening, I started to pay attention. It was NOT volume related, it was something else. I did some digging and found that throwing up typically begins with VSG patients around the 8-10 yr mark. Why? It is the lower esophageal sphincter (LES) spasming and/or becoming weak. When I mentioned this within my deck building post, I was thinking it was gall bladder, but no.

So I kept on with my famotidine routine and tried to be extremely careful when eating (read: eating TINY amounts at a time) to not miss the signals that I would end up puking. This went on until about a month ago (June 2025) when I was looking at FB and an ad caught my eye. It was an ad proclaiming Kiss My Acid Goodbye!, which of course, has the perfect tone for me. So I clicked it and read about the product and decided to roll the dice on a fucking FB ad.

I interrogated the dude who said he was behind the product – I even ran his emails through AI detection! – and he was, indeed a real guy who was ALSO a VSG patient who had the same puking experience that I am dealing with. I started the KMAG supplement (you can read all about it here: How KMAG works) and after a month, I can say that it definitely does SOMETHING. I’ve cut down famotidine to 10mg Pepcid at bedtime only and I’ve only had 3 pukes in that time, with a few spits w/out puking. I should probably go to 2x/day with it, but I take SO MANY fucking supps. I take: multivitamin, NAC (because I’m a sot), vit D+K sublingual, B12 sublingual, liquid glucosamine/chondroitin (nasty), concentrated liquid biotin/collagen and liquid magnesium (to offset the calcium, which is becoming a non-thing), PLUS the KMAG. It’s a lot.

I do feel that KMAG is healing my ravaged stomach and LES, it’s taking some time, but ALL natural supplements take time.

So that’s where I am with VSG/GERD and supplements. I feel that KMAG is doing its job healing up damage and soothing the LES spasms that are the likely culprit of the puking.

If you want to read ALL my posts relating to VSG, PPIs and managing GERD, here is the category, which is recent first, so you’ll need to go backwards to get to the beginning.

Roasted Green Bean and Asparagus Salad

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Roasted Green Bean and Asparagus Salad

Roasted veg, a punchy vinaigrette and a pop of blue cheese makes this one elegant salad! It looks fancy, but is super easy to make.
Course Appetizer, Salad, Side Dish
Cuisine American, Italian, Mediterranean
Keyword asparagus, green beans, salad
Prep Time 15 minutes
Cook Time 20 minutes
Servings 4 servings
Author misangela

Ingredients

  • 1.5 cups green beans, in 1-2" pieces
  • 1 cup asparagus, peeled and cut into 1-2" pieces
  • 10 grape tomatoes, halved
  • 2 Tbl red onion, brunoise (very small dice) or shallots
  • 2 Tbl minced parsley half in vinaigrette
  • 1 Tbl fresh thyme leaves only 1 tsp if dried, half in vinaigrette
  • blue cheese crumbles or feta or goat cheese
  • pepitas or nuts if you need more texture

Vinaigrette

  • 2 tsp garlic paste or smash up 2 cloves of garlic very fine
  • 1/3 cup EVOO
  • 1/4 cup balsamic vinegar
  • 2 Tbl rice wine vinegar
  • 1 tsp dijon mustard or whole grain
  • 1 Tbl of the minced parsley above
  • 1/2 Tbl of the thyme above
  • S/P to taste

Instructions

  • Preheat oven to 400ºF.
  • On a sheet tray, put the green beans and asparagus in a single layer with a little EVOO to keep from sticking. Lightly S/P. Pop in the oven for about 10 minutes or until the veg starts to get soft.
  • While the veg is cooking, whisk together the vinaigrette until it is emulsified.
  • Once the veg is soft, turn on the broiler and broil for about 5 minutes to get some colour on them. Then pull from the oven and cool for a few minutes.
  • Put the warm roasted veg in a bowl with the tomatoes, onion and herbs. Stir in the vinaigrette. Don't use too much, there should only be a Tbl or so in the bottom. Use any leftover vinaigrette on a salad!
  • This can be served room temp or chilled. When serving, top with the crumbled cheese of your choice and pepitas or nuts if you like.

Notes

This recipe is for 4 smallish servings. It took half a bunch of asparagus and half a small bag of ready to go green beans. It can be easily doubled to use all the veg and make a good sized bowl.